Conditional Divorce

Please reply me soon on the below issue as I don’t know what to do.
My sister and brother in laws abuse me very badly so I told my husband that I won’t cook food for them than my husband said that if u won’t cook food for them then I have also one condition that u have to leave your mother forever and never talk to her otherwise our relationship is over. On this condition I decided to go to my parents home then my husband stopped me by saying that do whatever u Want but don’t go then we started living as husband and wife but again he started forcing me to cook food for them and argument continued but one night on 6th October 2016 I told my husband that why you always force me to cook food for them as I have told u that I won’t cook than my husband said that I have also told u that leave ur mother otherwise our relationship is over Talaak. Since then I am living with my parents.my husband says that come back I have not given talaak to u. Please tell me whether I am divorced or not?

Answer

Assalaamu Alaykum.

Request your Husband to write down the exact words that he stated. Once both of you are in agreement as to the exact words, we will be able to comment as to the effect of these words. It will be premature to judge the situation when the parties affected have not agreed on the actual question.