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Asalamu aleykum, I have a question converning 3 talaq. My husband gave me three talaq on diffrent occasions. All the three times he uttered divorce was because he was not normally mad, but very furious. In those times we would fight alot and even hit each other. I would insult him and at times i would yell to him to say to me divorce. N he never would say it even when normally mad. However, the times He did say it was when he was totally n uncontrollably mad. Then after things cooled down, he remembered what he said n regret. N mentioned he didnt mean it n his uncontrollable anger gave him the will to say talaq. Then he left as an agreement by both of us for me to get help. This really helped me reflect on everything n I then decided to get help. And as expected, i was diagnosed with depression, stress n easily irritated because of my hormonal imbalances. medication was given to me and now i feel much better n can control myself much much more. Alhamdulillah. i take full responsibility because trully i was someone else and feel i made him depressed but at the same time he was so good and kept trying to calm me down n understand me n be patient with me. He of course as any normal human, would get so mad n lose it. It was his way of dealing with this issue but it got out of hand. After he left, he came back a couple of weeks later and we had intercourse. I came out pregnant. N then he decided he wants me back because of the baby but then he n i dnt know if he actually can. We both r lost in this topic. Some say its not valid on any because of his intense anger n me provoking him verbally and physically. While others say i have to remarry n have intercourse. I wouldnt be the person i am now without him. I honestly deepend on him alot because he taught me everything i know about islam n that led me to convert, leaving behind christianity and alcohol n going out to clubs. He provides for me emotional n financial help. I wouldnt be who i am now without Allahs gift in bringing him to my life. Please help me resolve this issue. I will do what i have to even if it means to let go of him. We just want to do whats right to please Allah. Jazak Allahu Khayran!
